Authority and Rebellion
2 Peter 2:10-12
Sermon Transcript
by Rev. Ernest O’Neill
Last time, we
began our study on authority and subjection and today, we’ll close what we’ve
been talking about. God has been showing
us the need for some understanding of authority and submission and subjection
inside the body. One of the real
difficulties for many of us has been that we’ve lived in such a licentious and
permissive kind of society that it may seem strange to some of the older ones
among us, but many of us have really surprisingly little understanding of what
authority and subjection is all about. I
think some of us find great difficulty in being able to tell whether we are in
submission or whether we are in rebellion ourselves.
What I’d like to
share tonight is three of the ways in which rebellion shows itself. It will enable us, through the Holy Spirit,
to at least look at our own actions and our own behavior and then tell whether
we are in the right relationship to God’s authority. Because it is true that if you’re in the
right relationship to the authority of God then you have no trouble with other
delegated authorities, you see. Every
one of us that is fighting our father or fighting our mother, every one of us
that is fighting the government, every one of us that is fighting the elders in
the body, we’re having trouble with Gods authority. That’s really our basic problem.
So what are the
signs that there is rebellion in our hearts?
The first sign is our word. A
lack of a spirit of submission, or a respect for authority, or for those whom
God has put over us is seen in our words.
You can see this 2 Peter 2:10-12, if you look at it. 2 Peter 2:10-12, and Peter is describing some
of the disorderly people who will take over the world towards the end of
times. 2 Peter 2:10, “And especially
those who indulge in the lust of defiling passion and despise authority. Bold
and willful, they are not afraid to revile the glorious ones,” and you reviling
and criticizing, “Whereas angels though, greater in might and power, do not
pronounce a reviling judgment upon them before the Lord. But these, like irrational animals, creatures
of instinct, born to be caught and killed, reviling in matters of which they
are ignorant, will be destroyed in the same destruction with them.” You can see those are strong words against
those who despise authority and express the contempt in their words.
And then in
Ephesians 5:6, you get the same kind of emphasis that a rebellion or a spirit
of rebellion is expressed in words.
Ephesians 5:6, “Let no one deceive you with empty words, for it is
because of these things that the wrath of God comes upon the sons of
disobedience.” Disobedience and
rebellion is shown really in the empty words that people speak. And Matthew 12:34 is one last one that we
should look at. Matthew 12:34, “You
brood of vipers! How can you speak good,
when you are evil? For out of the
abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.”
And really brothers and sisters you can hold yourself in, in all kinds
of ways, but if you have a real lack of a submissive spirit you know, and we’ll
talk about the difference of submission and obedience in a moment, but if you
have a lack of a submissive spirit towards professors at school, towards your
own parents, towards the authorities, eventually out of the abundance of the
heart the mouth speaks.
You may be able
to hold it in, whether while you’re in their presence, but eventually when you
get them away out of it you’ll revile them with words of criticism. So often you can tell what your own inner
attitude is by the way you speak of people who have authority over you when
they’re absent. I think that’s why many
of us do not bless our teachers, or we do not bless our parents, we are not a
blessing to authorities in the body because our obedience or submission to them
is just out of the mouth and out of the eyes, but it really isn’t an inner
thing. So when we get rid of them, the old
mouth lets the expression of rebellion out.
Now examples of
rebellion expressed in words: we’ve looked at some of them before but maybe it
would be good to look at them again because God always shows us some new
things. Genesis 3:3 is one clear
instance. Genesis 3:3 and you remember,
it’s in the Garden of Eden and Eve is talking with Satan and she says, “We may
eat of the fruit of the trees of the garden,” in 2b and then 3, “But God said,
‘You shall not eat of the fruit of the tree which is in the midst of the
garden, neither shall you touch it, lest you die.’”
Now the rebellion
in that is found in the last three words, or rather the four words before those
final three, because look at God’s own words in 2:16. Genesis 2:16, “And the Lord God commanded the
man, saying, “’ You may freely eat of every tree of the garden; but of the tree
of knowledge of good and evil you shall not eat, for in the day that you eat of
it you shall die.’” But God never said,
“Neither should you touch it.”
Now it’s
interesting that if a man or a woman really respects God’s authority every word
of God is important, and he’s very slow to change God’s word. It sounds corny at first, “Oh just add
another phrase,” but it’s interesting the more anxious you are to be submissive
to God the more important his words are to you.
I suppose we found that a lot I was brought up in a kind of liberal
seminary atmosphere, and we were very easy going about God’s words. We would wipe off a scriptural difficulty
just with, “Ah, it was Paul’s mistake.
It wasn’t God’s revelation. It
was Paul’s mistake.” We would be very
casual about God’s words. But it’s interesting when we come under submission to
Jesus, every word of God is precious and every word of God is important.
It’s also
interesting that then when you speak God’s word to others, whether you’re
speaking in a house fellowship or whether you’re speaking a word of personal
counsel to a friend, it’s important just to speak what God gives you to speak
and not to add to it or subtract from it.
That’s one way in which rebellion is shown, in taking a person’s words
casually. Isn’t it true that a lot of us
have got into difficulty in our relationship to authorities by misquoting them,
and quoting them glibly and carelessly?
How many problems come about because people misquote? I think I spend a lot of my time gathering up
the mis-quotes that people use. They
say, “Pastor said,” and I have to get right round back of it and say what I
think I originally did say. But I think
that when you’re anxious to submit to God then there’s a care over every word.
Now there’s
another instance, dear ones, Genesis 9:22.
Genesis 9:22, and you remember that Noah had two sons and you remember
Ham one of them Shem and Japheth were the others. And you remember that Noah got drunk and he
laid there naked and of course, it was an attitude of disrespect for the sons
to see him naked. Now Genesis 9:22, “And
Ham, the father of Canaan, saw the nakedness of his father, and told his two
brothers outside.” It’s a good way to
check your submissiveness to authority.
If you find yourself telling things about the authority that take away
from the dignity of the authority or take away from the other person’s trust in
that authority, then there’s a rebellion hiding in your heart you know. Even though you have very good when you’re
facing the authority, yet if you find yourself despising the authority or
contentious of the authority when the authority isn’t present to others, then
probably there is a rebellion in your heart.
It’s interesting
how used we have got to deception and hypocrisy -- isn’t it really? I mean, we’ve almost – we’ve grown up in this
atmosphere of deception and hypocrisy and so it’s become an easy thing to us to
have two faces. We show this face to the
authority, but behind the authorities back, we show another face
completely. Yet, I think a lot of us
have problems in our spiritual life because of that dishonesty, that
schizophrenia. So, that’s one way in
which you can detect a rebellion in your heart.
More and more God is bringing it home to my heart that it doesn’t simply
apply to my attitude to those in authority over me, but it applies in my
attitude to you. If I say something
about Gary to Sam when Gary is absent I’m not responsible to Gary. I’m having to be submissive to him. If anything, he is to be submissive to me,
but yet I’m doing the same kind of thing has Ham did. I’m trying in some way to lower the dignity
of Gary himself in Sam’s eyes.
Now brothers and
sisters I honestly do think that we are careless in our words and in our attitude to authorities. You can think, loved ones, think of your
attitude to the teachers you know, those of you who are at college or at
Bethel. We have all kinds of reasons for
it, haven’t we? But really we’re
undermining the dignity of the teacher, or the dignity of his position in
regard to the other person. So it’s one
way in which it shows itself. Would you
look Numbers 12:2? Again, it’s one I
think that we have looked at before.
Numbers 12:2, “And they said,” you remember of course, that Moses
married a Cushite woman and Miriam and Aaron were his older brother and sister,
“And they said, ‘Has the Lord indeed spoken only through Moses? Has he not spoken through us also?’ And the
Lord heard it.” Contempt for authority
is expressed in words and almost always comes out of words. It comes out in words.
A respect for
authority will close your mouth, and will seal your mouth, and will solve a lot
of problems, really. A lot of us would
talk far less if we really had respect for the authorities that God has placed
over us. Mind you, a lot of us might
have had really little to talk about then or be very poor on conversation, and
it does take a real willingness to be thought a most uninteresting person in
order to abstain from misusing words.
But really dear ones, we always express a rebellion sooner or later in
words, and it always comes out. Numbers
16:3 is the situation you remember, where Korah led a rebellion against Moses
and is the same thing. Numbers 16:3,
“And they assembled themselves together against Moses and against Aaron, and
said to them, ‘You have gone too far!
For all the congregation are holy, every one of them and the Lord is
among them; why then do you exalt yourselves above the assembly of the Lord?’” And then 16:31-32, “And as he finished
speaking all these words, the ground under them split asunder; and the earth
opened its mouth and swallowed them up, with their households and all the men
that belonged to Korah and all their goods.”
And the reason seems to be that words, in some way, are even worse than
thoughts.
In some way words
bring destruction to the whole order of authority and submission in a way that
even thoughts don’t. That’s why you
remember, Jesus said, “For you will give account of the last day for every
careless word you utter.” It does seem
when you utter words in criticism of an authority or in criticism of anybody
you lose spiritual power dear ones, you do.
I mean, you must admit it yourself -- haven’t you experienced a kind of
dissipation of spiritual life when you’ve talked about somebody else you
know? I know I have, whether it’s an
authority over me or not, there seems to be a loss of spiritual power when you
revile anyone or you criticize anyone.
Something my dad
used to say comes back to me. For a long time, our house was just chaos before
my mom or my brother dealt with God at all.
We were fighting and squabbling all over the place, and I would always
want to say to my dad, “No dad, you must explain to them what’s wrong. I mean, you must come back at them and
explain it.” He would say, “No, no you
love them, and you bless them, and you pray for them, and God will do more
through that then through all your arguing and discussing.” And of course I was young and thought I knew
all the answers and it took me a long time to learn that talking about people
really does nothing. All you do is lose
spiritual power yourself and it enables Satan to spread enmity, and
disagreement, and lack of love, and paranoia among your brothers and
sisters.
So it is really
important. I just have great respect for
Watchman Nee -- I suppose maybe some of you noticed that. He says this, “Difficulties in the church
often derive from slanderous words.
Speaking inadvertently is largely responsible for the breaking of the
unity of the church and the losing of power.”
When you think of the mess we’ve made of our churches right across the
nation, by the careless way we’ve criticized pastor, elders, everybody. It’s just like a scythe; we’ve gone in with a
scythe and just cut the feet from under them.
“Probably most
difficulties in the church are due primarily to slanderous words.” Here’s an interesting phrase. It’s one of his insights that are good, “Only
a minor part of the difficulties are real problems.” That’s right.
Really, only a minor part of the difficulties in any church are real
problems. Only a minor part of the
difficulties in the body are real problems.
It’s always what we do with the problems. It’s the way we increase them and exaggerate
them. And remember there was a good
illustration that somebody shared about someone who had spread a rumor about
someone else or had said something that wasn’t true about them. And the person said, “It’s really like
bursting a feather pillow, in a high wind.
It’s impossible to gather up all the feathers.” It really is.
Once you say something about somebody else you can’t tell where it
goes. You have no longer control of it
and it’s just impossible ever to get that word back.
So loved ones,
our words are our ways of expressing our rebellion. Here’s a strange one. Our reasons are often a way of expressing
rebellion. Could we read that difficult passage
in Romans 9? I’m not going to explain
the passage. I’m using it as an illustration.
Maybe someday in 10 years time will come to it on Sunday morning. I hope it will be in that length of time till
I have the answer.
Romans 9:10-24,
“And not only so, but also when Rebecca had conceived children by one man, our
forefather Isaac though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good
or bad, in order that God’s purpose of election might continue, not because of
works but because of his call she was told, ‘The elder will serve the
younger.’ As it is written, ‘Jacob I
loved, but Esau I hated.’ What shall we
say then? Is there injustice on God’s
part? By no means! For he says to Moses, ‘I will have mercy on
whom I have mercy, and I will have compassion on whom I have compassion. So it depends not upon man’s will or
exertion, but upon God’s mercy. For the
scripture says to Pharaoh, ‘I have raised you up for the very purpose of
showing my power in you, so that my name may be proclaimed in all the
earth.’ So then he has mercy upon
whomever he wills, and he hardens the heart of whomever he wills. You will say to me then, ‘Why does he still
find fault? For who can resist his
will?’ But who are you, a man, to answer
back to God? Will what is molded say to
its molder, ‘Why have you made me thus?’
Has the potter no right over the clay, to make out of the same lump one
vessel for the beauty and another for menial use? What if God, desiring to show his wrath and
to make known his power, has endured with much patience the vessels of wrath
made for destruction, in order to make know the riches of his glory for the
vessels of mercy, in which he has prepared beforehand for glory, even us whom
he has called, not from the Jews only but also from the Gentiles?”
I will not answer
a question on that, I cannot, but I’d like to share that one of the ways we can
tell a lack of submission to God is in our always being preoccupied with our
own reasons for doing something else.
Often God will give us a command and will ask us to obey it, but we will
filter it through the old tree of the knowledge of good and evil that we have
gathered in our own mind, and we will examine it under our own reason. Now brothers and sisters, do you see that our
minds are to be renewed according to the mind of Christ, to take in the values
that Jesus himself had?
Now if we begin
to reason in a fleshly way, we’ll find ourselves often rebelling against
God. Many of us can tell that we’re
rebelling against God because of our tendency always to give our reasons for
doing something different. If we go by
reason alone, we’ll eventually end up in slanderous words and in rebellion
against them. Now this comes out in a
scripture again and again where you find old Miriam and Aaron. They had reason for criticizing Moses. He had married a Cushite woman. He ought not to have married outside the
tribe and he was wrong to do it. They
found the reason. They said, “We’re his older brother and sister. We have the right to rebuke him.” [Numbers
12:1] But according to God’s state of values he was the head of the people, the
leader of God’s own people, so he was superior to his elder brother and
sister. According to God’s reasoning,
they had no right to criticize him. But
you find that most of the cases of rebellion they always find reasons for
criticizing. You remember old Korah
said, “You’ve led us out here in the wilderness. There’s no promise land.” He had a good reason, you see. There was a good reason for criticizing God’s
leader.
Now brothers and
sisters, I think Satan often gets us to rebel against God’s authorities on the
basis of using our reasons and giving good reasons for rebelling -- and you
know how we do it. We’ll do it against
the dad who is an alcoholic. The reason
is plain and obvious. We’ll do it
against a teacher who is a bit liberal in his theology. The reason is obvious. We have always good reasons for it. We’ll do it against an elder who doesn’t seem
to be as mature as the other elders and we seem to have good reason for it. But do you see that if you go simply by
reason you end up living your life by the tree of the knowledge of good and
evil?
I don’t know how
many of you have ended up complicating your life by not doing what God was
telling you to do, but by reasoning about it.
I think maybe two weeks ago, a brother told me what God seemed to want
him to do, and I said, “Go and do it. Do
it and be finished with it and obey him.”
But the brother fiddled around and reasoned around it and argued around
it. The next week he came and he wasn’t so clear on it: “Now I’m not sure
which, not sure whether it’s Satan or whether it’s God who is telling me.” And the next week he didn’t do anything. He just left the whole thing. Now it seems to me brother and sisters that
we can get into difficulty by not leading the simple life of faith. We try to
walk by sight all the time and by our reasons and our arguments.
Now loved ones,
I’m not opposing the mind. The mind is
there to gather information. But the
mind is there to be controlled by the Holy Spirit after it’s got the
information. We often try to use the
mind to bring about the thing ourselves.
You notice of course, from that piece in Romans 9, God just doesn’t
argue. He says, “Look I am God. Some things I tell you, you won’t know why
I’m telling you them. You have to obey
me just because you trust me.” And that
comes out I think in Leviticus 18. From
Leviticus 18:22, God is telling the people what to do. And he doesn’t give them great reasons for
obeying him. He must have bored them to
tears. He keeps repeating this phrase,
this clause, and you’ll see it if you read it a wee bit. Leviticus 18:1-5, and you’ll see the clause
occurring several times. Leviticus 18:1,
“And the Lord said to Moses, ‘Say to the people of Israel, I am the Lord your
God.’” That’s his reason. “You shall not do as they do in the land of
Egypt, where you dwelt, and you shall not do as they do in the land of Canaan,
to which I am bringing you. You shall
not walk in their statutes. You shall do
my ordinances and keep my statutes and walk in them.” Here’s the reason, “I am the Lord your
God. You shall therefore keep my
statutes and my ordinances, by doing which a man shall live.” Why?
“I am the Lord.” And just keeps
on and really gets to you. Verse 6,
“None of you shall approach any one near of kin to him to uncover nakedness.” Why? Would it be physically bad, or …? “I am the Lord.” That’s the reason. And just keeps on through all those commands
about sexual relationships and keeps on saying, “Why? Because I am the Lord.” In Verse 21, “You shall not give any of your
children to devote them by fire to Molech, and so profane the name of your God:
I am the Lord.”
Now God will
often tell us to do things and he’ll expect us to obey him just because he is
God. And brothers and sisters it is
important to know when that happens. And
it’s important, too, to see that Satan gets us to become rebellious on the
basis of our reasons. I’m sure there
isn’t one of you who would disobey mom or dad, or disobey an elder, or disobey
authorities without excellent reasons for doing it. Except, that you see, there’s no reason that
is sufficient for doing it, except that you’re obeying God, rather than man. So it’s important.
REASONS are one
way [to rebel against God] and THOUGHTS are the other. You find it in 2 Corinthians 10:4-6. You can detect rebellion in your own spirit
just by your thoughts. 2 Corinthians
10:4-6, “For the weapons of our warfare are not worldly but have divine power
to destroy strongholds.” And then what
are the strongholds? “We destroy
arguments and every proud obstacle to the knowledge of God, and take every
thought captive to obey Christ.”
It’s amazing that
men and women protect themselves from God behind endless defense lines of
thought. They have always good reasons for really not dealing with God and
their thoughts run along those lines.
The only way to deal with it, is to bring every thought into captivity
of Jesus. But many of us are so
opinionated that we cannot possibly submit to the Father. Old Saul was on his way from Tarsus to
Jerusalem to arrest the Christians.
Jesus confronted him and told him to go to Jerusalem. And he neither went back to Tarsus nor did he
go on to go to Damascus, nor did he go on to go to Jerusalem. He went straight to Damascus where he was
told.
Now many of us, we’re
on our way from Tarsus to Jerusalem and Jesus confronts us and tells us, “Go to
Damascus,” but we either go back to Tarsus first or we go on to Jerusalem
first. But we’re very full of our own
opinions and our own thoughts and we think, “Well, now it might be better to go
this way, or to go that way.” Now really
brothers and sisters, your thoughts can show you whether you are really
trusting in God’s authority and really submissive to him, or whether you have
lots of ideas of your own.
Now maybe it
would be good just finally to look at the statement that we made some time ago:
that submission is an attitude and is absolute, but obedience concerns action
and is relative. It’s relative to God’s
will for you. So could we look at a few
verses? There is a place for obeying God
rather than men. Hebrews 11:23 “By faith
Moses, when he was born, was hid for three months by his parents, because they
saw that the child was beautiful; and they were not afraid of the king’s
edict.” Now by faith obviously they were
guided, it says, to do this. They were
not afraid of the king’s edict, in spite of the fact that God’s word tells you
to respect those who are in authority over you.
Now then, see
Matthew 2:13 in connection with Jesus’ own birth. Remember, this is in the light of the fact
that later on in the New Testament -- there is that piece in Romans, “Respect
those who are authority over you, because the authorities are placed there by
God. And let every person be subject to
the governing authorities for there is no authority except from God and those
that exist have been instituted by God”.
Matthew 2:13, “Now when they had departed, behold, an angel of the Lord
appeared to Joseph in a dream and said, ‘Rise, take the child and his mother,
and flee to Egypt, and remain there till I tell you; for Herod is about to
search for the child, to destroy him.’”
So there was a time there to disobey the governing authority. And then again in Acts 5:27-29, that’s the
plain and obvious one -- “And when they had brought them, they set them before
the council. And the high priest
questioned them, saying, ‘We strictly charged you not to teach in this name,
yet here you have filled Jerusalem with your teaching and you intend to bring
this man’s blood upon us.’ But Peter and
the apostles answered, ‘We must obey God rather than men.’”
Now dear ones,
there are times it seems when obedience has to be relative to God’s own command
to you, and though your submission must be absolute, yet your obedience in that
case has to be first to God and only secondly to men. Now obviously, it is always concerned with
preaching God’s word or with transmitting God’s life, or with a clear command
of God to you. It brings up the whole
area of what attitude you should take to parents who just will not let you go
to the mission field. There’s the whole
teaching that Bill Gothard has shared that, yes you go with it. You submit to those parents. They’re part of God’s chain of
authority. Sooner or later, the Holy
Spirit will work with them. Now all I
suggest is that you must put alongside that, Acts 5:29. You must also see that there seems to be a
time when you must obey God rather than man.
Now only the Holy Spirit it seems, can show us the difference. The attitude must always be the same dear
ones -- I think that’s it. Acts 4:19
shows that the attitude always has to be the same. The attitude has to be one of submission and
respect. So even if you make suggestions
to your parents or creative alternatives, as even I think Bill Gothard would
suggest you do, yet they must be made in a submissive attitude of respect. Acts 4:19, “But Peter and John answered them,
‘Whether it is right in the sight of God to listen to you rather than to God,
you must judge.” Peter and John’s attitude was, “Well look, we respect you but
you have to judge which is right for us to do.”
And so there was an attitude of submission to them.
Now you probably
have to work that out in your own relationships with parents and your own
relationships with authorities. All I do
submit to you is that while submission must be absolute, surely obedience must
a relative kind of thing. Now I think
too many of us are too anxious to rebel against the parents or
authorities. That’s where we come into
trouble. Too few of us are sure that we
have a command from God. Too many of us
lack a submissive attitude and submissive spirit to those in authority and so,
were looking for an excuse to disobey them.
But it seems brothers and sisters, where you really have an attitude of
submission and respect for parents, or teachers, or elders, or those in
authority over you, that comes over to the authority and it has a winsome way
of breaking down their opposition to you so that you can actually share what
you believe God is telling you to do. So
it seems that God does work these things out if the attitude is correct and if
it is an attitude of submission.
It seems to me
that those of us who have an obedient spirit have definite signs. I think for one thing, if you have an obedient
spirit rather than a rebellious spirit, you will look for authority wherever
you go. You will look for
authority. Perfect authority and perfect
obedience is found in Jesus’ body.
There’s no perfect obedience found outside his body, certainly. Normally, a person who has a spirit of
obedience will look for a body to belong to, and to come in, and to be under
the authorities that God has set up in that body.
Another mark of a
person who has an obedient spirit will be a softness and a tenderness. A person who has respect for God’s authority
has a tenderness about them and a softness.
They’re always afraid to err and to go aside from what God is telling
them. So, there’s a gentleness about
them and they are easily reproved. They
are easily turned in God’s hand. I think
probably, submissive people who have an attitude or spirits of submissiveness
are very reluctant to council, or to command, or to be in authority over other
people. But like Plato’s old
recommendation, you remember, that only the philosophers govern, and among them
only the ones who didn’t want to, govern.
It seems that that’s one of the marks of a person who is submissive to
God’s authority. There’s a reluctance to
be an authority over others, a reluctance to control them. I think there’s a great desire to keep their
mouths closed, and to speak little, and just to speak when God tells them to
speak. I think there’s also sensitivity
to lawlessness or rebellion whenever it does occur.
Now it seems
brothers and sisters, that we might talk in some future Sundays about delegated
authorities and who is able to be a delegated authority, yet this is probably
the last time we’ll deal with our attitude to authorities. So maybe we should just have a few minutes if
you want to ask questions.
Q. If your dad or
mom tells you to submit in something, do they not need to give you a
reason?
A. It seems to me
that’s right. I think any sensible dad
or mom will see that it’s important to try to give a reason if you possibly can
because, for instance, it helps the son or daughter to mature and to understand
as well as to obey. Paul, it would be
true, that they really should not be required to give a reason to us, that we
ought to submit to them until their commands cross God’s will for us, and there
of course, our own hearts have to be very clear before God. They have to be very sure that we are totally
submissive to them in spirit and therefore, that we can know when their
commands contradict God’s.
Q. [Question from
audience is inaudible.]
A. I think it is
true, that yes, that a real attitude of submissiveness to authority does not
demand reasons from that authority. Now
I, on my part, would say any authority that knows anything about authority
would be certainly very wise to give reasons wherever he or she can. But we, in our attitude of submission to
them, should have no right to require reasons.
That’s the basis of command and obedience. Obedience is really obedience when you don’t
maybe see it the way they do. That’s why
I think our obedience is only tested often with God when he disagrees with
us. That’s the test of our obedience,
whether we go his way on that occasion.
Come back at me again if you want.
Q. Is there any place for us telling a person
where they’re wrong?
A. Yes, but it has to be done very wisely, it
seems. If you do it in a way that is
commanding, or that does not have an attitude or a spirit of submission in it,
then I think you begin to undermine that person’s position and in fact, you disobeyed
by coming out of position yourself. So
as a general rule, I would say it’s very difficult to do, even with one who is
an equal with you, let alone one who is an authority over you. But certainly it must be possible if you have
a real attitude of submission yourself.
I would recommend to us all to try prayer first and see if they are
still in touch with the Holy Spirit, in which case, if they are, he will
transmit to them what we have prayed. So
I strongly recommend that we depend a lot in prayer on that whole subject of
putting each other right. Especially, it
would seem to me if they are in authority.
I think many of
us have done irrefutable damage in our homes, by explaining to our father just
where his theology was, a little old fashioned, perhaps. And I think we’ve done irrefutable damage by
pulling him out of his position. He has
maybe been prepared to agree with what we said, but he felt there was something
wrong. And dear love him, he was
right. He sensed there was something not
right in the relationship. So it is that
I really praise God for brothers and sisters here, who pray for me a lot, and
trust that I am still close enough to the Holy Spirit to hear what he’s saying. So I don’t have a lot of brothers and sisters
who are putting me right in my theology, or even putting me right where I am
making mistakes in administration. It
seems that to me to be more an up-building thing then going around putting me
right. So I say, yes, in a very rare
case where you be very sure there’s an attitude of submission inside
yourself.
Q. [Question from
audience is inaudible.]
So you’re dealing
with an employer or with someone who is over you in a job situation, or with
someone in your family situation? It
seems to me you have almost no grounds for speaking to them at all in that
case. I can see a person who is
sensitive spiritually, perhaps being anxious.
I trust God that I would be anxious to see where God was putting me
right, wherever it was coming from. In
other words, it seems to me if you’re sensitive to the Spirit, you’re anxious
to find out where you’re wrong, wherever the information comes from. I don’t see why a person who is not sensitive
to the Spirit would have any of that attitude.
I think they would just crush you with their heel. I think on a purely
worldly a basis, they presumably have every right to.
I don’t think
it’s particularly open minded of them, but I think most of them would take that
attitude. I think it’s really difficult
with an employer, or with a boss, or with parents who don’t see it your way. I
think it’s intercessory prayer. And
brothers and sisters, why I fight against this business of putting the other
person right by word is I think we’re babies in intercessory prayer. If I felt all of you were on your knees two
hours every day in intercessory prayer, then I would think, ‘Well maybe if that
didn’t work, maybe you should speak to them.”
But I feel that many of us aren’t praying strongly for the people in
authority over us. I think prayer is the
first thing you try -- and after you’ve done two hours a day and it doesn’t
work, then maybe you can think of trying words.
Q. How do you
interpret the verses, “Rebuke your brother”?
A. Brother that’s
part of the problem -- that we have quoted these verses glibly. In fact, there isn’t a verse that says
that. There are verses in James that
says that if you convert another man and turn him from his sins, you will cover
a multitude of sins -- but you could obviously convert them by prayer, and not
simply by speaking words. There’s
another verse that says, if your brother sins against you then you ought to go
to him and tell him. Now it that case,
it’s a definite thing that he has done against you. I believe that God’s Spirit is showing us
that we first have to pray over whatever we feel that our brother has done
against us and come into real victory over it ourselves. And then, go to brother and confess whatever
resentment we had to him, and trust the Holy Spirit to make it clear to him
what was wrong in his case.
Now I know that
Matthew goes further at times if the brother won’t listen. It seems to me,
Steve, in an issue like a finance situation, if Sam had been in business with
Hank, and Hank had taken $2,000 or $3,000 of the business money and left Sam
just in trouble, it is obviously just not the work of a man of God. And so, Sam has to go to Hank first and tell
him. Then if Hank won’t listen, they
both have to come to me and explain the situation. But it seems to me it’s that kind of
situation that the Father is talking about rather than situations where
somebody has offended me by saying something hard against me. It seems to me I ought to intercede for that
person, win victory over it myself and go and share with them that I love
them.
Q. How would you define the distinction between
placidity and submission?
A. It would seem to me, brother, that submission
for one thing, would be a loving, positive attitude of affection and eagerness
to obey towards a person. Whereas passivity
would be just an attitude, “Well I’m here, and I’m in this position and I just
have to suffer whatever comes,” -- a kind a fatalism, kind of, “I don’t have a
positive attitude of a love or affection to a person. I’m here and I better
grin and bear it.” It’s an attitude of
stoical endurance. It would seem to me
that would be passivity. Submission is a
loving active thing, and I once shared one evening that I think you can really
bless another person. However, I think
there can be a “Uriah Heep-ish” quality.
Do you know Uriah Heep in Dickens?
He was always saying, “Your humble servant, sir.” Now I think there can be that kind of attitude
that is just miserable. You just don’t
want anything to do with it. It just
seems you can almost feel it in the wringing of his hands. Now there’s no place for that, but it seems
to me there’s a place for a healthy, loving submission to another person that
blesses the other person. It seems to me
that kind of healthy atmosphere then leaves a lot of room for all kinds of
humor and all kinds of easiness in the relationship.
I know just as a
school teacher, I would always be much more confident with a student that I
knew, and that I could joke a lot with him.
But it was the other fellow that was always looking to get under the
guard that you had to watch for. I think
that’s the same situation.
Q. Inaudible question: [What about] fornicators
and adulators?
A. Brother is bringing up a quotation that it
seems to me could maybe be expressed even more bluntly. Paul says, “I excluded a certain person. I gave a certain person over to Satan for the
destruction of his flesh,” and I think what he did was exclude the person from
the church fellowship so that the person in question would know the seriousness
of his relationship with God and would begin to seek God. The Holy Spirit would begin to deal with it
so that the person would not be able to do what many people unfortunately can
do today. They can be kept in the church
either because of the money they give or for some other reason. They can continue to be bluffed into thinking
they’re still a child of God.
Now obviously
brother, there is a place for the apostle or the successors to the apostles --
and I would imagine it would be pastors and elders in our present body -- to
discipline a person. It would be
important to do that. I think for
instance -- and I don’t want to offend the dear ones who may be here. I don’t
know that there are any Mormons here tonight, but I know there are a couple of
dear brothers who went into the Mormon Church some years ago and then come
back. You’re not too sure whether
they’re seeking to love Jesus and seeking to be a blessing, or whether maybe
there’s a wee bit of interest in other sheep.
And so in that situation there is a place for the leader, for the elder,
for the leader in a house or for the pastor to exclude them from the body. So it seems to me, yes brother, there’s a
place for discipline in the body, but it would seem to me it’s the
responsibility of the pastor and the elders.
God has in some
way placed you older brothers and sisters in a position of eldership, whether
you’re officially elders or not. It
would seem to me the same thing would apply to you. It seems God just will give wisdom at times
to you. So it would seem to me, that’s
it, brother. Dear ones, do you see what
I’m protesting against? Old Oswald
Chambers was very wise and he said, “The undergraduate sin is criticism,” and
that’s what I’m fighting. We are just so
open, aren’t we, as we’re discovering lots of new things to want to put
everybody right -- as long as we don’t have to get right ourselves. It’s so easy to be pointing the finger at
each other. I think a lot of love is
required and a lot of praying for each other, and just a great deal of
tolerance of each other. Jesus will put
us all right if we do that.
It seems
important, nevertheless, to have at least the degree of honesty that we would
have in a sensitivity group and that to at least be able to be as honest with
each other as that? Surely the important
thing is the spirit with which we say things?
I think that’s true. I think the
problem about a sensitivity group is it’s not gathered by the Holy Spirit at
all. It’s just, let me throw everything
at you whether it does you good or does you harm. But it seems under the guidance of the Holy
Spirit, there is a time for real honesty with each other. So, Marlene, the heart of that is if we’re
going to minister up building to a person, we need to be very sure that they are
able to receive it -- and indeed, maybe even suspecting it themselves. It seems real administering a thing to a
person rather than just saying it to them is having the discernment to see that
they already even are suspecting it themselves -- and will be willing to
receive it.
I would like to
say that this is all consistent with real honesty, dear ones. I use a phrase that is sometimes I think
brothers and sisters may misunderstand it.
We’re having a meeting and we’re trying to decide whether we should buy
bread for the bizarre from the supermarket across the way, or whether we should
buy it from a wholesaler. I think it’s
fairly obvious what we should do, but we’re discussing the thing -- and I’ll
say, “Okay, fight me on it. Here are my
reasons for it. Fight me on it.” And
they’ll think, “Well we’ll pull out the guns.”
But I really mean that we should have such a healthy relationship with
each other, such a healthy attitude of love and submissiveness that we should
be able to offer strong reasons to each other.
If you have better reasons, and God does not check me on it or check
another brother on it, let’s go.
But yeah,
Marlene, I think there should be greater honesty among brothers and sisters in
Jesus than anywhere else. And it has no
place for, “Yes ma’am” – as John brought it up last Sunday. There’s no place for just agreeing because
you’re supposed to obey authority. But
again Marlene, it seems to me it’s always the spirit of the thing. I know in the elders meetings on Tuesday
night, it just can be very straight because I have no question of the brothers’
attitude to me. It’s just I know they
would die for me and I would die for them.
They would die to maintain my position and I for them. So there’s a possibility of great honesty --
but if Satan gets in there and seems to deceive that spirit, then boy, the
whole thing can change.
Q. How do you see the Old Testament prophets?
In the position
of a preacher brother, I think it’s a unique position, and I mean I thank God
for it, but it’s one that I think one has to use very humbly, and carefully,
and wisely and I know that God gives us a real freedom in a preaching
situation. Except brother, for instance,
that one of the things I have to die to when I go into the pulpit is anything I
know about Dave, or Mike, or anything I know about Sam. I have to die to that and ask the Holy Spirit
what he wants to feed his body today.
And so brother, a prophet or a preacher who is under the anointing of
the Holy Spirit is not really speaking his own words. He’s speaking what God wants spoken to the
body and the Holy Spirit applies it individually. And so brother, even in preaching it seems
me, there’s no place for me speaking to John directly and rebuking him. But I agree with you, the prophet and the
preachers seem to have a unique position where he speaks generally to a
situation. It’s the Holy Spirit I think
that applies it individually.
I think a sister
was going out last day and she said, “How did he know we were coming today?” Well
I didn’t know they were coming -- but the Holy Spirit did and he applied the
word directly to her heart. So I think
that’s a miracle brother. I think it’s a
unique position. I think you have to
pray for me and I have to pray for every one of you that ever preaches or
speaks, because it’s a dangerous position and a gracious one for Jesus to give
to men.
Q. [Question is
inaudible.]
A. This is an old problem. A lot of us have been in a sensitivity group
being organized in the nursing school in the University by someone who is an
authority over her. Some of the older
brothers and sisters may not know, but the sensitivity group approach is that
you’ve to get up and say all your good points.
You tell what you think is good in you and then tell the things that are
bad in you. I mean, it’s wild. Anybody who can lie any way at all will get
clear of that one, I’m sure. It just proves nothing. But sis, no.
I think it’s wrong. I think we
witness, however difficult it is. I’m
not for sticking out as sore fingers if we can avoid it, but in that situation,
I think you witness. I think you say,
“No, I don’t really know what is good.
If I were really honest with you, in regard to God, I don’t think I’m
good at all.” I’d turn it into a
testimony. But sis, I know it’s too easy
to quickly say that, but I would be honest with my Lord in the thing. I wouldn’t
play their game. Push me.
[Question/comment
from same person is inaudible.]
A. Yes, alright I would do it. I don’t think she can force you to say what
you don’t believe. You probably don’t
really – or, do you? Ah, you do look a
little proud. No, I know, but you see,
she presumably wants you to say things like, “Well I’m really very good with
people, and I get on very well with people.
I don’t get on very well with nursing instructors, but with
people.” And it seems to me you really
have to be honest. You have to say what
you’ve found in relationship to Jesus.
You have to say, “Well I’m sure many people might say that I’m a
sociable type, but I know in my own heart, that boy, I lack a lot real love for
people, real unselfish love.”
I think why that
is, is a lot of us have good times in our classes when we’ve taken the
opportunities. It’s one thing to not say
anything and another thing to make up an opportunity. For example, when the electric light bulb
goes out you say, “Yes, but I have the real light.” No, that’s terrible. That just makes fun of Jesus and that isn’t
blessing. But this other kind of
situation is very real, and I think can be a blessing. Lots of us in speech classes have really been
used by Jesus to transmit his life to others because they’ve just given us an
opportunity to speak about things that we were concerned about.
Q. Could you speak about reluctance to be over
other people?
It seems to me
sis, that that would be a very safe attitude to have. And I know I have kind of felt that, “Lord,
I’ll try to keep myself under you. I don’t really want the job of trying to
keep a lot of other people under you.” I
think it’s a good attitude to have, sis, that it’s a terrible responsibility to
exercise authority. I’m sure it’s good –
at least I can say this positively -- I’m sure that those of us who are in
authority should be reluctant to exercise authority. We should exercise it when Jesus tells
us. Now I don’t think we should stand
back for a moment when he tells us to exercise it -- that’s important. But I think we should be suspicious of any
readiness and eagerness to exercise authority.
I think the only things that enable a man or woman to exercise authority
in the Spirit is God’s Holy Spirit and God’s grace. So you’ll only want to do it when God tells
you to do it and gives you the grace to do it.
Well maybe we should pray dear ones.
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